Dating without drama
If you’ve ever seen a house of cards put together, you know that something as light as a feather can quickly make the stacked deck of cards crumble.
In the same respect, I dated a few women whose entire (perceived) world would crumble when an expectation wasn’t met, or an innocent comment became Shiva, Destroyer of Worlds.
In every healthy relationship I’ve had (including my wife), we spent time away from one another and engaged with our community of friends.
Our lives didn’t revolve around each other, and we were much healthier for it.
attack another person’s character flaws instead of looking inward, thus never having to deal with why they thrive on drama to begin with.
Often times, a young woman will have been wounded by an immature young man and to protect herself will become General Patton.
Smeagol used to be a hobbit — a somewhat dwarf-like humanoid race that has large, hairy feet — but discovers a ring of power that quickly poisons his mind and has him become obsessed, leading to the infamous catch phrase, “Much like Smeagol, some women become obsessed and possessed with their boyfriend.
It starts off innocently enough, wanting to spend time, getting to know one another, and humorous little jabs about how we’re “missed” when we’re gone more than a few hours.
His girl runs his life and anytime he makes a slight error she jumps down his throat.
He is nothing more than an accessory she keeps on a leash.